u'll be fine

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 I always find myself struggling to find the idea of full happiness. I become consumed by any little detail which does not fit into the puzzle, or mistakes which I've made, thinking it's absurd for them to happen in a certain situation. Well... I'm trying to to get my mind around the idea that, yes, sometimes we do fail at something, be it our first time or something we usually ace, with no obstacles or impediments. 

Yes, sometimes we do have awkward moments, when our mind seems to have a problem functioning and we just can't find a solution to even the easiest task.

Yes, sometimes things don't go the way we would we would want them to, but that does not make us who we are. We are human. We are not robots, set up to always function properly, solve difficulties easily or the same as others- something which, honestly, would become at one point inevitably boring.  We never know where the water's flow can take us. Even the crappiest moments can turn out to be helpful or worth it, at some point in our lives. 

So, let it be, let it slide, move on and don't get caught up too much in failure or mistakes. It won't bring you closer to happiness.

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