hard pills to swallow:

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- not everybody you want in your life, wants you in theirs, so don't bend yourself backwards, trying to force them to stay when they couldn't care less if you're around or not.

- you are not always right; learn to apologize for that.

- YOU ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR YOURSELF.

- you can't make everyone happy.

- say 'no' with grace and courage, when compliance would be a more popular choice.

- people are not analyzing your every move.

- no one is mad at you.

- you are not a burden for struggling, asking for help or making mistakes.

- SHOW PEOPLE LOVE AND CARE AS MUCH AS YOU CAN, BECAUSE AT ONE POINT, SOME POINT, YOU WON'T BE ABLE TO ANYMORE. GET OVER YOURSELF, STOP BEING STUBBORN AND BE THERE FOR YOUR LOVED ONES.

- the right people will love you.

- some people will not like you, no matter how nice you are.

- it is okay to not be okay sometimes. it is okay to not be productive sometimes, or to break out of your daily routine.  we are not robots. our body, mind and soul need a few breaks sometimes.

- stop trying to be perfect. embrace your flaws and flourish them.

- SOMETIMES YOU HAVE TO MOVE ON WITHOUT PROPER CLOSURE AND I CAN'T STRESS THIS ENOUGH.

to be continued.

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